Np brainer update

Cancel that, I was foolish for choosing someone who is like her. i should have expected her to go all bipolar on me.

but, wise words from Becca, (a mutual friend)
"Nothing you love is lost... not really. Things, people-- they always go away, sooner or later. You can't hold them, any more than you can hold moonlight. But if they've touched you, if they're inside you, then they're still yours. The only things you ever really have are the ones you hold inside your heart"