I am a "do it yourself" kinda guy. If I need a home repair done, or a task completed I will look up how to do it and then I'll take care of it. This is because I prefer to be self-sufficient. People like me have a lot of skills, but we also have a lot of baggage. The reason we have this desire to be able to do it ourselves is because we don't want anyone else to screw it up. We come from a past of people letting us down. If we don't rely on others, then there is no chance for someone else to mess everything up for us.