Whenever I meet another guy who doesn't really approve of my lifestyle they ask how I can be attracted to men. They usually go on about how beautiful women are and about how sexy a vagina is, then says that the thought of another man's penis is disgusting. I usually would engage them in conversation about how men are sexy. But I just had a realization: I'm not gay because I find men sexually attractive (which I do, but that is a learned behavior caused by the real reason I am gay). I am gay because I have LOVED men and never loved a woman. I can connect emotionally to men in a way that I can't with women. It is that simple.
Moral: So, to all my gay readers; next time a straight guy goes on about how disgusting dick is, just tell him that it isn't because of the penis of a man that you are gay, it is because of the heart.
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